tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4061131289208324557.post3326377610418769620..comments2014-01-26T14:03:35.660-08:00Comments on A Homicide Survivor's Perspective on Homicide Grief: Warning: This blog contains violence DO NOT READ unless necessary. It's ugly.Peggy Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17439617666837923794noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4061131289208324557.post-40528238021613495962009-02-08T19:41:00.000-08:002009-02-08T19:41:00.000-08:00Oh, Jeanine, I'm so sorry you read it. I was getti...Oh, Jeanine, I'm so sorry you read it. I was getting ready for bed and thought "maybe I should post 'no friends and family allowed'." And that's what I'm getting ready to do right now. <BR/><BR/>I'm sorry you are having these thoughts. That's not healthy for you. My daughter in law definitely doesn't want me to have them and certainly not you who have done so much for our family. You have been a walking angel on earth and Denise would never want you to suffer on her account. <BR/><BR/>I'm posting this stuff so that other survivors may some day see it and no they are not going crazy. <BR/><BR/>I love you, Jeanine, and look forward to when I'm myself or my new self again and we can have a good time. It'll happen! Hopefully after the trial. <BR/><BR/>Maybe you can sit with me a few of those days. I would love that. <BR/><BR/>God bless and get some sleep.Peggy Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17439617666837923794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4061131289208324557.post-26172660955143725322009-02-08T18:56:00.000-08:002009-02-08T18:56:00.000-08:00I have had these thoughts too. Too often for someo...I have had these thoughts too. <BR/>Too often for someone I didn't even know. {not that that really matters} But I think you know what I mean. Most people think "oh that is sad" and leave the thoughts just as they would had they turned off the television after watching a crime show. It is so disturbing to have those thoughts. Even worse to know that she went through it. I cannot understand how the whole world isn't in an uproar and filled with rage. I have struggled with faith for a very long time. Incidents like this just make it even harder. Because I cannot understand why a good person would have to go through this and have their life end that way. To know that this type of thing happens every day is just so overwhelming. I wish I had the right words, and I wish so bad I could take away your pain. :(Jeaninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13083937041003606122noreply@blogger.com